My answers to the second question (and kind of the first) were somewhat contradictory, for the same reason, because of what many people have already said. I think that if you are asking people to spend an afternoon and evening with you, you should be providing for them.
I do love the idea of a potluck. I hope you manage to win Ian over!
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Date: 2011-06-09 01:37 am (UTC)I do love the idea of a potluck. I hope you manage to win Ian over!