If I were you, I'd serve 'light refreshments' - appetizers + wedding cupcakes RIGHT afterward, and leave the dinner to people who want to attend and pay their own way, or I would serve a full dinner.
The big gap in between is really the sticking point-- you're asking people to spend their whole day with you, and some of it maybe just waiting for you.
this is my reasoning too; I'm okay with everything except the long waiting, especially if it's an out-of-town wedding and/or I don't have transportation of my own.
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The big gap in between is really the sticking point-- you're asking people to spend their whole day with you, and some of it maybe just waiting for you.
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